Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Do you have a Mentor or a Role Model?

At one time or another, and most likely now, you have had a mentor, a wise and trusted counselor, or an influential  supporter, someone that is helping educate you in the ways of life.  Or perhaps you have someone more like a role model, one who you find embodies all that you would like to be, a shinning example, someone worth imitating, the epitome of virtuousness.  Qualities, either of mentor or a role model, include:  a person who is a good listener and is nurturing and encouraging. One who is compassionate if misfortune befalls you and really wants to help in times of need.   The person who understands you, perhaps because they have gone through a similar situation. A kind person who is considerate and caring, someone you regard with pleasure and want to be with. A mentor or role model would be one you would respect and admire.  Someone you hold in esteem and honor.   The respect that Shakespeare was talking about when he said:  "Thou art a fellow of good respect.  Thy life has had some smatch of honor." Another basic quality of mentors and role models is a good attitude that prevails in one's spirits.  A person who has mental and emotional  joy and is optimistic.  Mentors and role models almost always walk their talk, and many are charismatic, having charm, magnetism, and presence.  If you are a mentor reading this, or a role model, thank you for your value to society.

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